It's Thanksgiving Day in the US - as the nation grieves the loss of an imagined future we held such high hopes for. Hard to count blessings in grateful thanks under the thunderous revenge rhetoric of Republicans hollering their hate and democrats spewing their disappointment.
As the world quakes and crumbles in the wake of yet another Trumpian win - we are forced to root deeper in search of source and spirit. It is here, always and eternal - hard as it is to reach for and realize in the haze of too much smoke and mirrors of late.
wonder | wander | world willfully puts together a gratitude list - as we mindfully recreate time honored traditions of thanksgiving. Remember those special moments when families gathered around the Thanksgiving table?
Many beautiful traditions have slowly faded away over time. From elaborate table settings with special china, to holding hands while singing grace - these cherished customs brought magic to the specialness of this holiday.
The formal arrangement of plates, glasses, and silverware told you exactly where everything belonged. The tradition of using fine china added an extra touch of elegance and made the holiday meal feel more special. Lighting candles around the table went beyond providing illumination - it brought warmth and intimacy to the gathering.
Lovely handwritten name cards added a care for detail that made everyone feel special and helped avoid the awkward shuffling around looking for seats. We'd join hands around the table and lift voices in familiar hymns - singing grace together before the meal.
Multigenerational families shared ancestral tales and memories of important historical events during the meal - making more meaningful moments and memories. Getting everyone involved in meal preparation - from the oldest to the youngest, extended and deepened time spent together.
Having more around to share and help made the work lighter and more enjoyable for everyone. The conversations, laughter, and skills exchanged while preparing food is collaborative communal time together - often stretching past the meal for bonded comfort in each other's company.
In the past, communities would organize large gatherings where every family brought their signature dishes to a central location - often a church hall or community center. People shared not just food, but also stories, laughter, and created connections that lasted lifetimes and were carried over generations.
A heartwarming tradition brings everyone closer as each person shares a gratitude list out loud. These simple yet meaningful lists create deeper connections and help everyone focus on life’s blessings.
To be able to gather around and create gratitude lists together - write three to five things you feel grateful for this year. This activity sets a positive tone for the meal and reminds everyone why we gather together. Collect the cards in a special box or album to read again next year.
Happy Thanksgiving to all - for all!
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